Tom’s story
The longer version — the chapter before Sun City Grand, and the mindset that carried me into retirement.
Career chapter (built on calm + details)
I spent most of my career in operations and team leadership — the kind of work where the details matter. I was drawn to roles where you take something complicated, remove the friction, and make it run clean. Part problem-solving, part people-management, part staying calm when the pressure is high.
I liked being the person who could walk into a situation, ask a few good questions, and figure out what mattered most. Not because I wanted to be the hero — because I liked dependable systems and dependable teams. And over time, that “steady” approach became the thing people expected from me.
Family first (always)
The best parts of life rarely happen at work. They happen in kitchens, living rooms, and at the dinner table. They happen on family trips, birthdays, and ordinary moments that don’t feel important until you look back and realize they were everything. Retirement has given me the space to notice those moments more — and to protect time for them.
Sports taught me the basics
Sports taught me how to handle wins and losses without being dramatic. They taught me teamwork and resilience. And they taught me something I still believe: you don’t have to be the best — you just have to show up consistently and keep your attitude right.